1. Sending money to a woman: It's strictly forbidden. Any woman from Russia or former Soviet Union asking for money just tries to cheat you. She will either get all your money or disappear after receiving a certain sum. A good woman is too proud of herself to ask for money. Moreover, a woman doesn't think that you have relationship until you have personal meeting. And she has been living for many years without your help and can live further without it. Just imagine that any American girl you've met ask for money. Will you give it to her? Think about it! Otherwise you will be in trouble.
2. Preparations to the visit: In order to bring her to your country as a fiancee, you must visit her own one. It is the only way to get visa to enter the USA. For information how to get visa, click here. It is known for sure that if a woman is serious, she will want you to meet you. According to my own observations it happens approximately in a 6 months. Then you'll need a few months for making preparations. Don't male her wait longer as she will think that you don't have serious intentions. So you should be prepared in all aspects: physically, emotionally and monetarily.
3. Adoring a photo: Be careful with photos especially until you find out details about them. They may be old or may not belong to her. I once got acquainted with a woman who sent me photos over 2 years old. After that she changed her hairstyle and gained 20 pounds! Certainly I was guilty because I didn't ask her. It happens more often that women look much better than in pictures and that's great! And do remember that you marry a real person not an imaginary one. Get information about her hobbies, interests, desires and so on. As it is said in Russia try to understand her inner world.
4. Focusing on one woman: Not a good idea. You may be lucky to get acquainted with one woman and then marry her. Sometimes it happens so but really seldom. Do not think that it'll happen with you. Stop being a gentleman. Statistics says that only 4% of relationships between Russians and Americans end in success. Considering this fact, you need to get acquainted and date with approximately 25 women. It was so with me. I met with 150 ladies and dated with 30 of them before getting married. I hope you will be luckier. My site, advice, articles contribute to your success. It's a bad idea to correspond with only one woman. You only waste time if you fail to marry her and then you have to begin all over again. There is a love at first sight but not always. And imagine that you spent time, money, efforts all in vain while travelling to Russia. In general men on dating sites are in mid-40s and women are in mid-20s. She perhaps has time but you don't. You should communicate with several ladies at once certainly for comparison purposes.
5. Not carrying your detailed research: It is necessary to find out reliable marriage agency with good recommendations. Also you should learn as much as possible about woman, country she is from, its history, culture, traditions and language. It is a good contribution to your success. You should ensure that the agency is honest and that you are corresponding with a real woman. For this purpose ask her for more contacts. Otherwise you'll just spend your money and get nothing.
6. Sending her wrong pictures: You shouldn't send her photos of cars, houses or similar things. In that case you either attract the wrong type of a woman or she will consider you to be unreliable. It works only with American women as they are shallow ones. With Russian women you should show your inner world, your senses and emotions.
7. Thinking she just wants a visa: If you think so, it means that you interested in a business relationship type of marriage. Believe that she wants love, but not a free way to the USA. Would you leave your family, friends, home, learn foreign language just to change the country with better conditions of life. She wouldn't. She just wants a loving husband!
8. Supposing she will be your trophy wife: These ladies are strong. They have to live with husbands who drink, find a mistress and don't give money to family. She will show who you are if you try to use her as a trophy wife. You may find a wife, a lover, a friend but not the one whom you will control. And it is impossible to control Russian women as they are independent and strong.
9. Not asking her questions: Are you looking for someone to spend time together? Certainly, no. In that case you should respect a woman, be interested in her personality and life. If you don't ask questions, she will be hurt and stop corresponding with you sooner or later. Ask different questions: general and private ones. And don't be afraid to repeat them as it is also a way to protect yourself.
10. Not thinking over a back-up plan: This is a GREAT mistake! If you make up your mind to go to Russia, it is impossible to predict what may happen. It is always something unexpected. I was through the earthquake, watched the fall of Twin Towers and many other things. It doesn't depend on how many letters was sent to you or how many phone calls was made, when you meet in life, everything will change. Perhaps you won't like each other. For such cases you need a back-up plan. I've already said that you should meet with several women. And it's a good idea to have goos relations with several agencies (at least 2). Find out and write their address and telephone numbers in order to contact with them if anything goes wrong.
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